Crossing The Border
"The lines between FRIENDSHIP and LOVE are thin and FRIENDSHIP closes our eyes to LOVE"
Nakakalungkot mang isipin pero ito ang katotohanan. Kaya nga sinasabi nila na love is blind. Kaya rin minsan marami ang na-iinlove ng hindi namamalayan. Nakatawid na pala sila sa border between frienship and love hindi man lang nila nakita kung paano. That’s why some of us are afraid to love lalo na kung friendship natin ang minamahal natin. We dont know what will happen pagkatapos tumawid ng border. Ayaw i-risk ang friendship dahil sayang. Lalo pa na hindi natin namalayan na nasa kabilang side na tayo. At sa sobrang anxiety na ating nararamdaman ay pilit nating ibinabalik ang relasyon natin sa kabilang side. Kaya kahit ayaw nating gawin may nasasaktan tayo.
So kung ganito ang kaso, what are we to do? Wag niyong hayaan ang friendship niyo to blind you from love na natatakot kayong tumawid and risk your friendship. And dont let love pull you to the other side so fast na gugustuhin niyong bumalik. Remember that friendship is different from love. They may have similarities but they both are in different level. Kaya be mindful of those simillarities and differences of the two para hindi ka madapa, maconfuse, o matakot, papunta o pabalik man ng border.
December 5th, 2006 at 2:34 am
nice one bro… really can relate with that… fortunately, me and my “friend” were brave enough to talk things out and cleared everything between us… friendship ang nanaig… ^^;
July 26th, 2009 at 9:46 pm
sigh.. how i wish that would be easy. wanted to stop the feeling before i completely fall for it. but hell, have no choice.. the force is stronger. now, i don’t know what to do because i have completely fallen for “you”..
miss ko na siya.. pero.. hanggang dun na lang talaga.. kailangan lumayo. =(